My Sweetie Sister had sent me ecards.. I’m so touched…

Yesterday, I received two electronic greeting cards from my younger sister, Joahna. Before I opened it I thought nagpapatawa or nangaasar lang sya. When I opened the first one with the animated cute puppy image and “I miss you soooo much” voice message… I’ve felt really touched. Plus, she wrote a personalized message on it. She said,  that she’s thankful for having me as a sister and for everything I’ve done to her.

Same as the second ecard with the image of sisters with dedication. I realized then, how much important I am to her kasi she always listen and follow my advices and “pangaral”, every ocassion she saves her allowance just to buy me presents particularly teddy bears (because I love those stuffs) or send me cards or letters. Kaya ayun…I missed her and my whole family. I won’t forget every memory we shared together before especially during the time when I was still living with them… in my real home. It sad to think that my beloved sis is longing for her ate. She considers me as her mother, friend and best sister that she had “daw”. If only there’s a chance, gusto ko na magkakasama din kami magkakapatid kahit mag kakalapit lang. But I am already married, sooner or later Aaron and I will be having a child or children (in God’s time and will). We have our own family to build… kaya things are different now. Even we are apart I still show them my care, love and support no matter what. I am lucky because my hubby understands me, he treat my family as his own. We are both bread winners and head of the family.

By the way this blog is dedicated to JOAHNA. I want to tell you that I LOVE YOU sis. I am always here for
you through thick and thin, through ups and downs, through joy and
tears…. Blah blah… basta ‘till my last breath I am always on your side.
Pero wag aabuso!

The Guy’s Rules “daw” and My Answer

Here’s what I’m telling you on my yesterday’s post. My hubby, Aaron, sent me this email (blue text) because he maybe thinks that i need to learn things about guys or him so he will be excuse from everything. (But he was wrong he he!) Since, I’m little upset that time I replied to each of his rules (pink text) and then sent it to his email immediately. When he read it, he called me up in my office and I was wondering what he was laughing all about. He read my email and asks how I got the female side. Of course i said that I made it (out of my frustration or depression prior to Valentine’s Day). We both laugh when he read it over and over again that’s why he said he gonna send it to his friends. Well, here I would like to share this to you guys coz this is really funny:

THANKS FOR THIS, I GOT MORE IDEA ABOUT GUYS AND YOU. I KNOW YOU HAVE YOUR OWN SET OF RULES, I RESPECT IT. BUT DON’T U THINK THAT I ALSO HAVE MY ALWAYS #1 RULES?

ANYWAYS, HERES MY EXPLAINATION TO YOUR EVERY RULE:

THE GUY’S RULES

At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down.
Finally, the guys’ side of the story. (I must admit, it’s pretty good.)

We always hear "the rules" From the female side.

Now here are the rules from the male side.

These are our rules!

Please note… these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!

1. Men ARE NOT mind readers.  YAH RIGHT, BUT  CAN’T U BE A MIND RECORDER?.. it sounds funny right? For me if you’ve known your partner for how many years and you really loved her… you would simply remember or memorize each things about her including her likes and dislikes.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down
We need it up, you need it down You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
I dont care about this. next…

1. Sunday sports. It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. I allow you to play with your computer or playstation… but it doesn’t mean by 24/7. Know your priorities and your wifey needs lambing. Remember, you only have a chance to spend quality time with your family or love one every weekends.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport And no, we are never going to think of it that way. Okay I agree.

1. Crying is blackmail.
I DON’T THINK  SO… i cried because you hurt my feelings. Sometimes, you forgot that I need to feel being loved even in a lil’ way.

1. Ask for what you want. 
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

I always say it! but you simply neglect or ignore it.

1. Yes and No are perfectly Acceptable answers to almost every question.
Yah! this applies to you.

1. Come to us with a problem only If you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for. I always come to you. Aside from the Solution, I need some comfort.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
You know this is NOT ME!!!, what yah think?

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
YAH U DON’T STICK WITH YOUR WORDS…  

1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
I dress even like a fashion model, but it seems that you don’t act like my super admirer. Though you are sweet, sometimes you act like a maniac. 

1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.
NOT APPLICABLE

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
I THINK SO, BUT BE CAREFUL…

1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both.If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
OKAY, but don’t blame me if ever I’ve done something wrong.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
HOW IF YOU ARE WATCHING A CABLE SHOW, WHEN THERE ARE NO COMMERCIALS?

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
OUCH!!!!

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit.
We have no idea what mauve is.
I KNOW YOU ONLY KNOW 3 COLORS, THAT’S WHITE, BLUE AND BLACK. YOU DON’T EITHER APPRECIATE OR KNOW MY FAVE COLOR. 

1. If it itches, it will Be scratched. We do that.
I DO THAT!

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
I ADMIT, I ALWAYS SAY NOTHING. THAT’S BECAUSE I DON’T WANT TO SAY MY NON-SENSE REASON. IF I TELL YOU, YOU WOULD BE MAD AND MIGHT AS WELL YELL AT ME.  EVEN YOU CAN EXPLAIN IN A SMOOTH WAY.

1 . If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.
SAME AS ABOVE

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear Is fine…Really
OKAY!!!

1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation, or golf.
I KNOW HOW TO BLEND IN HA HA!

1. You have enough clothes.
COZ IM JUST A GIRL WHO WANTS TO LOOK PRETTY IN FRONT OF HER HUSBAND. WISH I COULD BE JULIA ROBERTS IN PRETTY WOMAN!

1. You have too many shoes.
I HAVE MANY SHOES WHICH ARE READY TO DISPOSE.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
I said before it’s okay to be in 180 pounds but not 250. Besides, I only think of your health.  I don’t want you to suffer from any sick or pain someday. That’s how much I care for you. I hope you appreciate it.

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight.

NO you don’t need to sleep in the couch on Saturday and Sunday night. Our Dog house is always available for YOU! 

But did you know men really don’t mind that? It’s like camping.
Well Sure, Hope you’ll like it. Fit yourself in huh!

Valentine’s Whatever

I wanna share about my Valentine’s Day, well actually nothing special kasi that time my husband, Aaron, and I was still waiting for our Salary coz we no longer have enough money.  Suppose to be that was our  first time to celebrate Valentines as a married couple.

A day before Valentine’s day, i was thinking really hard of what to do or give to him. In fact I only got seventy (70) pesos in my wallet. I remembered that my office mates bought some cheap balloons last month during our boss’ birthday in a party shop at Tomas Morato. So yun na yung naisip ko na valentines present. I knew it was only cost 10 pesos each so nakabili ko ng 3 heart at 1 round shaped balloons with "i love u" prints on it. I spent 49 pesos including two meters of ribbon.

When I got home I bought "papel de hapon" and another ribbon amounting to P4.50. Then, I arranged the baloons with the japanese paper. Syempre, I used my talent and creativity to do it by myself.

The next day, Valentine’s Day, as soon as I woke up, I turned on my laptop to do a short presentation with music, "I do cherish you", through Microsoft Powerpoint. I just inserted some of our pictures and copied a love letter for him. Ayun lang, i finally solved my problem with a unique but economical gift. Pero as what they say, "It’s the thought that counts."

(See pictures below:)

My husband only saw it when he came
home, though he appreciated it medyo bad mood lang sya for some reason.

Somehow natuwa sya but still he was

upset kc may nakasira ng araw nya. Hay naku, nadamay pa tuloy ako at ang special day lalo na wala pa syang tulog that time.

When I arrived home, I saw nothing new in our room and he was sleeping. On my part, as like other girls or wife who are expecting for a present from their boyfriend or husband especially on that kind of occassion, I slightly felt insecured and deprived. I didn’t see anything even a small piece of a note…  No flowers, no valentine’s card, no chocolate, no sundo…  I would appreciate if he fetch me up from my office. I really felt bad! He explained that he was looking for flowers in Libis but it was expensive.

If my brother didn’t visited me in our house, I might not talk to him. After that day, I thought Ron will be busy to buy me flowers already. It sounds funny pro napahiya ako sa sarili ko that’s why I cried like a baby. At first, he nag at me coz I disturbed him from his sleep. Then I guess Mommie (his mom) talked about my feelings so he then understand. He kissed, embraced me and said sorry and I love you. Kaya so far I’ve slept well even we had a small fight or tampuhan.

Early this morning, when I opened my email I read his mail entitled  "The Guys Rules… Mama read this URGENT". When I read it I don’t know if I’m going to laugh or get mad. I beg to disagree to some of the "Guys" that’s why I replied my opinion to each rules especially for Ron. It would be fair enough if they will also obey or respect the "Girl’s Rule" right? Anyway, just check it on my next post.

Today, as usual, nothing change medyo di ko pa rin sana  papansinin si husband but I realize I only have few hours to spend quality time with him everyday.  Although, I want to receive flowers or chocolate, still nothing compares best with "i LOVE Us, and HUGS and KISSES from your true love. It’s always No. 1 . hay!!! 

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